would be that they agree to get help.  In this case you want to have some options available before the person changes his or her mind. Let the person know that if they agree to get treatment you are going to be supportive of their efforts. You can offer to go with the family member to their first treatment appointment.  You may be able to offer to help pay, you might be willing to transport them to appointments.  Ultimately, you know their situation best and what is needed.

There can be strength in numbers. With the help of a professional like an intervention specialist, some families join with relatives, friends and others to confront an alcoholic as a group. This approach should only be tried under the guidance of a health care professional who is experienced in this kind of group intervention.  It is also worth noting that research has shown employers and doctors can have a major impact on an alcoholics decision to get treatment.

Alcoholism intervention is an emotionally taxing process.  In the best case situations they translate into getting a loved one help so they are worth it, but they aren't easy. It is important to remember that you are not alone. Seek out a support group. Sometimes it can feel like this is only happening to you, but thousands of others have been through the same.  Often these people for Al-anon groups and can help you get through the tough times.
 

To find treatment options in your area visit our alcoholism treatment locator or call 1-800-662-HELP which will route you to your nearest treatment hotline.

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